Saturday, August 1, 2009
Our First House (Before the Makeover)
Friday, July 31, 2009
It's Official...
Thursday, May 14, 2009
Zach's Turn
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
It's a WILD LIFE....
Monday, May 4, 2009
Relay For Life
I Relay because my life has been forever changed by cancer. My body has not become the victim of cancer, but cancer has victimized many of my family and friends. I would do anything to take the pain away from the ones I love and Relay is just one event I can take part in to honor others.
Relay gives me the unique opportunity to celebrate the lives of those who have battled cancer, remember loved ones lost, and support the American Cancer Society’s lifesaving mission by fighting back against a disease that has already taken too much from too many families.
One night of Relay is the least I can do to honor everyone who spends years and lifetimes battling cancer. I Relay for YOU: in memory of Family and Friends whose time on earth was cut short, to support the loves of my life who are currently fighting their battle, and to celebrate with everyone I hold dear to my heart who have won their battle.
I usually try to pick special people to honor each year at Relay. This year I am walking especially for Mrs. Bell, Katie Immel, and Angie Wenzel. Mrs. Bell was a great childhood mentor of mine. She and her husband often acted as grandparents to me as we baked cookies, celebrated grandparents day at school, and enjoyed Monical's pizza. Mrs. Bell gets her strength from God as she is currently battling bone cancer. Katie is my Chi Omega sorority sister. We spent a month in Nicaragua together a few years ago, and many many sorority functions. Strong does not even begin to describe Katie, as she is battling Leukemia. Angie was one of our Chi Omega Advisors at Carthage. Such a wonderful woman who would do anything to improve the future of the Women of Chi Omega. We lost Angie just a few weeks ago to Brain Cancer. I love all three of you...
Last year I watched my dreams come true as Carthage College had their first Relay For Life on campus. I had worked for 4 years with American Cancer Society to get Relay at Carthage, and with the help of a wonderful team, we pulled it off. Even though I could not join Carthage this year to celebrate a second Relay, this year I am joining Pekin's Relay For Life. My close friends, Jennie and Betsy, have a team there for a member of their family and are allowing us to join their team. I cannot wait!
Please help me reach some new goals this year by supporting my fundraising efforts. Your donations will help the American Cancer Society fund groundbreaking cancer research, provide up-to-date cancer information, advocate for all people to have access to screening and treatment, and offer free programs and services to improve the quality of life for people facing cancer. By being a part of Relay, we are joining a worldwide movement to help defeat cancer for future generations.
Thursday, April 30, 2009
My Best Friends Wedding....Round 2

One of my favorite movies of all time.... My Best Friends Wedding. If you have seen it, you probably loved it. And if you haven't...you need to rent it :o) I have seen it so many time I can watch it in my head (if they find a way to project brain waves onto the big screen you could just watch it with me)
If they make a Hollywood presentation of the 'best guy friend' situation, there have to be many of us out there who have them. Best guy friends are the "big brothers" we actually liked spending time with in our younger years. They are the guys that your parents thought you were dating because you were always on the phone or hanging out with them. They are the guys that your friends said you should date because "you are always together anyhow, why not make a relationship out of it". They are the guys you never thought about dating (and if you did you cringed because it would be like dating your brother) and never wanted to attempt to date because of the risk of ruining the friendship.
That is Ryan to me... We have been friends for about 10 years. I could not ask for a better friend. Met him my freshman year of high school in our youth group. He was a senior (my brothers age) and made my freshman year bearable. After high school, he went into the Air Force and our daily phone chats turned into once a week chats. I longed for those phone calls to give him the latest gossip and to hear how horrid his days were :o) Eventually he came back home and continued to be the big brother who was always looking to protect me. (I never did what he said but listened to him ramble anyhow) He knew he could give me all the advice in the world and I would probably just do whatever I wanted anyhow.... but he always told me what he thought. He was there when Andy died (close friend and youth group member) and we spent many evenings just sitting...watching movies, talking, or literally just sitting. Somehow knowing that we were both hurting and both understood the other was the comfort we needed. I am so grateful to have a friend like Ryan.
We even made the "If I'm not married by the age of 30 and your not married we might as well just marry each other" pact. Both knowing the chance of that happening was not so great, we continued to joke about it. I had Micah, and after some tough relationships Ryan had Heather. Lucky for Heather I LOVE her to death and she is perfect for my best friend. Lunch dates, mini golfing, and just hanging out still filled our free time and sometimes we would even convince our significant others to join in on the 'dates'. (Thanks to both Micah and Heather for being understanding of our friendship!!!)

In December of 2007 I called Ryan to break the news that I was not going to be able to marry him because Micah just proposed. Before I could get out my exciting news, he told me he was going to ask Heather to marry him and was needing advice on asking her. When he was finished with his news and discussion, I shared my news. It was one of the best conversations ever as we got to share the the next step in our lives with one another.
Wedding planning galore and then my wedding arrived. And then more wedding planning for Ryan and Heather and now they are official. It was such an exciting day, unlike in My Best Friends Wedding...I was not there to break up the wedding and take the groom for myself. (Again, it's a good thing Heather is such an amazing person because had she not been on my 'favored list' we may have had some issues) Beautiful wedding, gorgeous bride, and wonderful groom.... I teared up a little with excitement. My best friend is happy and that makes me quite happy as well.
So, Heather, thank you for making Ryan so happy, for taking care of him, and putting up with him...you are a saint. And Ryan, I am thrilled you found Heather...she is your perfect match. And it's a good thing we found our soul mates because I really don't think I would have lasted long if I married you myself :o) And I know you would have gone insane since I am soooo 'high maintenance'. So take care of one another and love each other until the end!!! And I am sure double dates are in our future because I don't think life would be complete without them.
Love you both so much!